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A Return Ritual, If You Want One

Choosing no ritual is enough.

Module 10

My choice: no ritual, later, alone, or with others; timing if wanted

People to invite; trusted lay witness if wanted

Something to bring or read; privacy limits

Something I might share, or my choice to pass

How we will finish; who will handle food and tidying

Example: Completed Example: A Return Ritual, If You Want One

Fictional example. Sam wants a small gathering after his brother's death and hasn't chosen a date.

My choice: no ritual, later, alone, or with others; timing if wanted

With two friends, later. I will ask about a date when I want to.

People to invite; trusted lay witness if wanted

Mira and Dev. Mira has agreed to be the lay witness and remind us that we can pass.

Something to bring or read; privacy limits

His handwritten soup recipe. Leave his letters in the drawer; he asked us not to share them.

Something I might share, or my choice to pass

I might talk about missing his terrible shopping lists. I also feel angry about a conversation we never finished. I may pass.

How we will finish; who will handle food and tidying

Stop after twenty minutes and eat soup. Dev will bring it in a container he does not need back. Mira will wash up. I can leave before the meal.